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The Right to Change

Road to change

A single decision, realization, or boundary can change your entire life path. That’s powerful—because it shows you’re not defined by your past or the version of you others grew used to.

What Keeps You Stuck?

  • Guilt, fear of judgment, or loyalty to old roles.

  • These burdens rob you of agency.

  • But remember: you’re never obligated to stay who you were yesterday.


Letting Go of Others’ Expectations

Change can unsettle people—especially those familiar with your old patterns. That's okay. Change is yours to own, not theirs to approve.

I once believed I owed explanations or loyalty to who I used to be. That held me back more than any obstacle ever did.


Your Change Doesn’t Need Permission

You can evolve anytime—right now:

  • Decide to stop a harmful habit—even if you did it yesterday.

  • Refuse a compromise—even if it was normal before.

  • Set a new standard—even if others resist.

Change can be bold. You don’t need to “face it slowly.” You can claim it immediately.


Boundaries Are Power

“It’s okay to say: ‘That’s not me anymore.’ ”Boundaries aren’t unkind—they’re vital protection:

  • Declare what you will no longer tolerate.

  • Don’t apologize for growing.

  • Be respectful, yes—but firm.


Empowerment Through Support

Real change isn’t isolation—it’s connectivity. Surrounding yourself with clarity, accountability, and encouragement makes your new life possible.

A starting support resource? New Visions Recovery Solutions offers compassionate guidance to help reclaim your power and move forward with purpose.


Local Activities That Support Change

If you’re stepping into a new phase and need space or nourishment for the soul, try these local activities to reconnect with yourself and the present moment. No recovery groups—just refresh, reflect, and recharge:

Colorado Springs

  • Blodgett Memorial Golf Course: Practice focus and patience on the greens. Golf is an activity that blends calm, discipline, and subtle learning in motion. (visitcos.com)

  • Colorado Springs Fine Arts Center at Colorado College: View immersive art exhibits or enroll in a short workshop—to stretch your thinking and reconnect with creativity. (csfineartscenter.org)

Woodland Park

  • Echo Canyon River Expeditions: Try stand-up paddleboarding or kayaking on a nearby lake or river—great for embracing flow, focus, and outdoor peace. (echocanyon.com)

  • Ute Pass Trail System: Take a new hiking route in the Pike National Forest—each trail offers quiet space for reflection and grounding. (fs.usda.gov)


You Have the Right

  • The right to grow.

  • The right to refuse what no longer serves you.

  • The right to change on your own terms.

Not tomorrow .Not when it’s easy for others. Now.


“Change is yours when you choose it—not when the world allows it.”

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