Why Success Takes the Same Amount of Effort

While proofreading my book, I got hit with reflections on the past versus today: the stress then, the pressure now.

Back then, surviving meant dragging myself through suicidal despair, exhaustion, bitterness. Relief came in fleeting moments through injection. Staying alive required massive, exhausting effort—with jail stays, homelessness, emotional chaos.

Early recovery shifted that effort into structure—holding a job, attending therapy and classes, showing up for my kids, complying with my probation officer. It was demanding, but it felt purposeful.

For the last few years, I've entered a new phase—working 6–7 days a week, writing, speaking, networking, chasing dreams. It’s still a heavy lift—but honestly? It’s no more effort than life as an addict chasing meth 24/7.

So what changed?

The direction of my effort, and my mental resilience.

Effort vs. Direction

Our brains don’t distinguish between actual danger and perceived fear. That’s why PTSD flashbacks, fear of public speaking, or stepping into unknown paths feel threatening. Chasing success—even small—takes you into territory your mind flags as risky.

That’s why success often feels harder than survival—it’s unfamiliar. But it's not more work. It's discipline, emotional stamina, and mental strength.

Effort × Direction = Progress

Success is not about working harder—it’s about working smarter and more intentionally:

• Staying consistent after rejection.

• Keeping composure when a client says no.

• Continuing growth when momentum slows.

Your task isn’t to burn out—it’s to channel your energy into a purposeful trajectory.

Take the Step When You’re Ready

If you're considering a move toward growth—and small but meaningful change—two local resources offer tangible support:

• In Colorado Springs, AspenRidge Recovery Centers provide outpatient care with trauma-informed, veteran-friendly programming. Compass Integrative Recovery+8NEW VISIONS+8NEW VISIONS+8BetterAddictionCare.com+2AspenRidge+2Psychology Today+2

• In Woodland Park, Diversus Health Counseling Center offers flexible outpatient addiction therapy and mental health support tailored to rural and regional communities. Addiction Treatment Services+1BetterAddictionCare.com+1

For on-the-ground support in both cities—including individual therapy, group recovery mentorship, and life skills training—visit New Visions Recovery Solutions in Colorado Springs or Woodland Park. recovery.org+15NEW VISIONS+15NEW VISIONS+15

.One Simple Rule for Lasting Success

• The amount of effort doesn’t change.

• The quality and direction of that effort do.

So channel your past perseverance toward a future you actually want.